Wednesday, January 7, 2009
It must be love
It’s our 16th wedding anniversary today.
We have been together for 21 years, more than half my lifetime.
My dad married us in a simple wooden church in front of our friends, families and B our first born who nearly bought the house down when he realised the church was full of people he knew and began to point them out to his pop, who was busy being ministerial.
This is our song
It was playing as we walked down the aisle, J, B and me.
I carried daisies.
I thought I was in love when we married.... and I was ...in a way....a kind of one dimensional way.....It’s hard to be in love when you are still learning to love yourself. I am much more in love now than I was that day....and I’m pretty sure I now know what love is.....in a very multidimensional we have grown together kind of a way. We began with nothing and now we have everything. Each other, two awesome boys and a lifetime of shared experiences.